The One On How To Be Kind

Kindness is not coffee and cake. It’s decanting someone’s piss into sterilized jam jars and labelling them carefully for the doctor. It’s not glamourous, or fun. It’s changing stoma bags and falling to your knees in a bathroom stall. It’s wiping eyes in the face of immense challenge.

Kindness is what you do when it all that is left. It’s not a sign on a wall from TK Maxx or an instagram post.

To be upfront, I am not a particularly kind person. People tell me I am, but they don’t hear my thoughts in the dead of night.

So never, ever Be Kind me.

I do not give a fuck about your race or gender. Not one. All comers, Inglis HQ is open anytime. Bring your halt and your meek and your lame. Inglis HQ has your back. I will even taste your piss. Because when shit gets real, it goes real. {